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Are You Sick
and Tired of the Constant Struggle, Pain, Embarrassment and
Humiliation That Jealousy is Causing In Your Relationship
and Life?
Is YOUR jealousy causing
you to feel scared and afraid that your partner, spouse or lover
is going to leave you for someone else and you'll end up alone?
Is your partner's out-of-control
jealousy and constant questions about where you've been, who
you've been with and what you were doing-- driving you crazy?
If you're finally ready
to say..."Stop the jealousy--I've had enough" then...
Get Ready To
Learn The Simple Steps You
Need to Take To Stop The Jealousy Now--
BEFORE it Rips Your Relationship To Shreds...
Dear Friend,
You're here because either you or your partner is
jealous and this jealousy is painful enough in your relationship and
life that you're finally ready to do something about it.
We're relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and you may not know us yet, but we're experts on helping people like you
overcome jealousy before it ruins your relationship and life.
We created this website because we want to help you get rid of the
jealousy that's causing so much pain, misery and uncertainty between you and the most important
person in your life.
In order to best help you do that, we'd like to ask you a few questions
about jealousy and your relationship.
This will only take a moment and don't worry...
These questions and your answers are
for your eyes ONLY as a tool for discovering just how BIG the jealousy
problem is for you in your relationship and what your next steps are for
overcoming it.
So, take a deep breath, relax and answer the following questions as
openly and honestly as you can...
Have you ever accused your
partner being with someone else--even if they adamantly deny it?
Have you
ever lost a relationship in the past because of jealousy?
Are you insecure, suspicious
or not trusting of your partner or spouse?
Have you ever wondered
whether this jealousy and lack of trust is truly justified or not?
Have you ever checked up on
your partner by looking through their cell phone, computer,
email, purse, briefcase etc. to see who they may be
communicating with that you don't know about?
Have you ever accused your
partner of dressing too provocatively or too nice for the
occasion?
Have you ever accused your
partner of "flirting" or being too friendly with someone else?
Has your partner ever
suggested they might consider leaving the relationship because
of your jealousy?
Do you ever call your partner
when you're feeling anxious just to make sure they're not with
someone else or doing something they shouldn't be doing?
Do you ever feel that your
partner is looking at and paying too much attention to other
attractive people when you go out?
Have you or your partner ever
lied about where you were, who you were with or what you had
been doing to prevent another fight or argument?
Do you find that you're still
angry or upset about being cheated on either in this
relationship or one in your past?
Have you ever thought that
because of your jealousy, you might actually be going a little
crazy?
Have you ever wished you
could talk to your partner about your feelings without them
blowing up and getting upset?
If you answered YES to any of the
above questions, then your jealousy is much bigger
than what would be considered "normal."
The "green-eyed monster" called
jealousy can and
will
destroy your relationship
or marriage if you don't do something to stop it in its tracks.
If you're at the end of your rope because of jealousy, hang on a minute because...
There IS a way to eliminate the shame, insecurity, and self- doubt.
Here's
how you CAN overcome the jealousy, get your life back and enjoy the healthy
relationships
you deserve... And it's easier than you think!
How do we know this?
In the early days of our relationship--long before we were highly
successful Breakthrough Relationship Coaches--we had our own struggles with jealousy.
We've been there, maybe exactly where you are right
now. In fact, things got so bad, we didn't think our relationship would
survive. It tore us apart-- made us question ourselves, we felt unloved and
it caused a great deal of unnecessary turmoil.
We don't know
how jealousy comes up for you in your relationship or marriage-- but in
our particular situation jealousy came at the worst possible
moments...
For
example...
We would be out at a restaurant, a social gathering, a party or a
get-together at a friend's house and Susie would see Otto talking to
someone else--especially another beautiful woman--and her whole body
would start to tense up, her heart would start beating faster (and not
in a good way), her mind would start racing and then she'd start seeing and
imagining the worst possible scenarios in her mind.
It wasn't
that Susie didn't trust Otto.
She did.
It's just that
these jealous thoughts were like scenes from a bad movie that she
couldn't get out of her mind and the worst part is that they would
seemingly come out of nowhere and just "blind" her to the point that
this was all she could think about and focus on.
Her jealous
thoughts were enough to drive any sane person crazy.
When these thoughts would come up, she would start saying things to
herself like... "He's going to leave me for someone else--someone younger, more beautiful, more fun, sexier, more outgoing, more
'spiritual'."
You name it
and she thought it-- and as we just said a moment ago--it very well
could have totally ruined our love and relationship.
Jealousy was
so intense that neither one of us could really be who we were and this
was awful.
Otto was always trying to reign himself in and not really be his normal,
outgoing self when we would go out.
He didn't feel like he could talk to as many people as he would like in
social situations out of fear of how Susie might react.
Because of the tension that the jealousy created for the two of us, we
also weren't nearly as connected as we would have liked and our
intimacy suffered.
Communication was strained, we both felt like we were always walking on
eggshells and there was even an underlying tension when we had sex
(after all, it's hard to have deep connected, passionate sex with someone
who is always accusing you of doing something that you're NOT
doing.)
We could have split over this but the good news is, we didn't...
We
found a solution for these painful, agonizing feelings!
We discovered steps to take to save our relationship and
remove the
JEALOUSY out of our lives forever. And you can too!
Now at
parties, get-togethers with friends or social gatherings, Otto is the one
coming to find Susie -- wanting to be with her, and she's able to have a
perfectly fine time NOT watching what he's doing or keeping tabs on him.
As Otto says--"This makes ME want to seek her out and be with her
more than anyone at any party we are at... totally changing our dynamic
at social gatherings completely."
We're two people (like you)
who've lived through this. We struggled with the apprehension, heart-break and uncertainty in our relationship.
But you know what?
Our relationship used to be filled
with jealousy and now we have a close, connected and incredibly
passionate relationship that we wouldn't trade for anything.
We ended our miserable nightmare and so can you.
Since you're reading this, we believe you're ready to get rid of the unhappiness in your life.
Many people would have already clicked off this site
already.
But you're still here, because you hear that small voice - the one
inside that whispers to you every single day. The same one that keeps
you awake at night
saying...
You were meant to have a life FREE Of JEALOUSY!
Why
Jealousy isn't your fault
and what you can do about it...
Maybe your partner has given you plenty
of reasons to cause you to doubt their love, honesty, faithfulness and
desire to be with you--and maybe they haven't.
Maybe you've been in other relationships where you've had a partner or
spouse who's lied to you or cheated on you.
Maybe you've seen firsthand relationships (maybe your parents) or marriages of people you
know, love and care about be totally destroyed because of lies, cheating
or an affair or infidelity.
Regardless of whether any of those things are true for you...
If you want to know why being jealous is such a huge issue in relationship today, you don't have to look any
further than your favorite media outlet.
We are all
being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books, magazines,
newspapers, emails, music, and on the
internet with the message that everyone lies and cheats--especially in
committed relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media
outlets are filled with real
and made- up stories of infidelity and betrayal.
If you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of
us have), it's only natural that you're going to start putting a question
mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You might even be
tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that "everybody's" doing it and
it's somehow acceptable.
Because of all of these messages
(plus maybe what happened in your past), it's no wonder you have all
these jealous thoughts that you can't seem control!
So, what can you do to get these
jealous thoughts and feelings under control?
Here's a technique we want to
teach you right now that can help you stop jealous thoughts in 3 minutes
or less.
The
"3-Minute Jealous
Thought Stopper"
We created this technique to help
our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients get some "instant relief"
whenever those jealous thoughts rear their ugly heads (which is usually
at the worst possible moments).
We call it...
The "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper."
You'll want to use this when your jealous thoughts are creeping in and
running your life--and you feel out of control.
Remember, jealous thoughts are a habit and they can be changed.
Here's how to do the "3 Minute
Jealous Thought Stopper"...
1st-- SIT-- Sit in a quiet place.
(The bathroom will do).
2. SETTLE-- Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing
your breath into your feet so that you feel grounded and connected to
the earth. Feel yourself slowing down and your breathing deepen. (Maybe
30 seconds)
3. AWARENESS-- Come into awareness of your jealous thoughts in
this moment. (What exactly are you thinking? You might even want to ask
yourself... "I'm thinking that_______)." And then fill in the blank with
what you're thinking. No judging!
4. ASK--
Ask yourself if you know your jealous thoughts to be true--absolutely
true. What evidence do you have to support these thoughts? Whether you
think your thoughts are true or not true, bring your attention to your
heart or gut area and
feel the sensations in your body. (What are you feeling in your body? Is
there tightness, a big knot, emptiness, heaviness?)
5. ALLOW-- Allow your sensations to be there without judging them and
breathe into that area of the body. (If you feel heavy in your heart area, breathe
into that heaviness until the sensation softens. If you feel a "knot" in
your gut area, breathe into that knot until it starts to loosen.)
6. REPLACE-- Replace the jealous "movie" running in your head to one that is
more in alignment with what you want in your life--because the reality is
that both outcomes are possible.
Here's
why the "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper" works and an example of how to use
it...
If you know that your jealous thoughts aren't true but you see yourself
being cheated on or your partner leaving you anyway, replace that movie
with
a favorite memory from the past with your partner or special moments
between the two of you that are happening in the present or could happen
in the future.
Here's why this incredibly simple technique of "running a new or
different movie" in your mind when jealous thoughts come up is so
amazing...
It's an absolute scientifically-proven fact that your brain cannot tell the difference between seeing
something that's real and seeing something that you only imagine in your
mind's eye.
Why else does your mouth actually
salivate when you imagine yourself cutting open a fresh lemon and opening
your mouth to take a big bite of it?
It's your body's reaction to
something that you only imagined.
The same is true of jealousy.
When you imagine your partner
wanting to be with someone else (or whatever keeps you up at night), you
are running and re-running that movie until it becomes very real to you.
If you want to change this movie
that is manufactured in your brain, our jealous thought stopper can
actually dissolve it--and help you to stop being jealous.
The truth is...jealousy is a habit
and it's a habit that can be broken.
For 21 days, every time your jealous thoughts come up, do this technique and you won't believe
how much ease you will begin to feel.
This is one of the techniques that
Susie used to help her put an end to jealousy that was between us and we
know it can help you too.
What if your jealous thoughts
ARE true and cheating is really going on?
If you know there is truth to your suspicions, we still advise you to
practice this technique.
Instead of your new "movie" being
a favorite memory, you might see yourself taking your
next step in an empowered way instead of continuing your jealous cycle.
This "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper" is a great way to help you get some instant relief from your jealous thoughts.
You can do this as often as you
like to get the relief you want and need but...
You may also be wondering...
What
Else Can You Do To STOP Jealousy
In Your Relationship and Life?
If you're serious about doing what
it takes to stop jealousy in your relationship and life, you're
going to want to know about this...
We've created a breakthrough program that shows you exactly how to stop the insanity that
jealousy creates in your relationship and life.
Announcing:
No More Jealousy
A downloadable book and audio program from Susie
& Otto Collins created specifically to help you
Stop YOUR Jealousy Now...
Here's what's in the "No More Jealousy" program
and how it can help you start dissolving those jealous thoughts,
feelings and sometimes out-of-control irrational behavior...
"No More Jealousy" is more than
just a book or an ebook. It is a complete "soup-to-nuts" program for
overcoming jealousy.
The "No More Jealousy" program
includes a book and 6 audio recordings that you download, as well as a special report on
how to get free from jealousy in your close relationships, all tightly
focused on helping you heal this painful situation you're living with
and create a love relationship that's exactly what you want--free of the
pain of jealousy.
Here's what you're going to get in the
package...
In part one of the package--you'll
get...The "No More Jealousy" Guidebook
~Available Now--
Instantly downloadable
We've organized this "No More Jealousy" guidebook from our program into
two parts. In
section one ...
We introduce you to some new ways of looking at jealousy, help
you understand what it really is, where it comes from and give
you dozens of concrete ideas and strategies for letting those
jealous feelings melt away.
Also in part one, we talk
about where trust-building really starts. (This too will surprise you.)
In
section 2 ... This part of the guidebook is where we lay out our
strategies for dealing with a true "jealousy emergency."
After you've finished with this section of the book, you (and your
partner) will know exactly what to do in tense, crisis- filled situations
where jealousy has come up quickly or seemingly exploded out of no where
and you need to know what to do and how to handle it.
Woven within the pages of this "No More Jealousy" guidebook
are our personal stories, along with the questions and stories of others who gave
us permission to use their words with the hope that their experiences
would be helpful to you as you discover how to stop your jealousy and restore
your relationship or marriage.
There are questions at the end of each chapter to help you examine your
specific situation more closely and to give you more clarity about your
situation and what you need to do in order to break free of
the jealousy when it comes up.
In part two of the package
You'll get...
6 "No More Jealousy"
Instantly Downloadable Audios~ NOT The Same info as
in the book
Please note:
These 6 audios are NOT
Susie and Otto reading the "No More Jealousy" guidebook.
These instantly available downloadable recordings are
40-75 minutes each and offer additional insights, breakthrough strategies and coaching specifically
designed to help you solve this jealousy issue in your relationship and
life.
Here's what we cover on
these recordings...
No More
Jealousy
Audio
Recording # 1
On this recording, we (Susie and
Otto) are interviewed by Suzanne Roberts,
Founder of Unifying Solutions, on jealousy--why it's a
problem, how to overcome it, how to keep it from coming up
in the first place.
No More Jealousy Audio
Recording # 2
In this audio recording we show you
what jealousy is and what it isn't so you can recognize and
stop it when it comes up.
You'll learn about the "two types of jealousy problems" and
how to make sure neither one of them destroys your
relationship.
We introduce you to "7 Myths of Jealousy" and show you how
any one of these 7 myths are so potent that they can destroy
your relationship or marriage (if you buy into them.)
Plus--on this audio...we give you the "first step to
healing" and we take you through a a powerful exercise that
helps you to get in contact with what's really going on
inside of you--so you can let go of it without causing you
any more pain.
No More Jealousy
Audio
Recording # 3
On this audio, we help
you deal with issues around control and healing past emotional
wounds that keep stinging you with pain and stuck
in jealousy.
You'll learn a powerful 4-question process
for separating out what is true from what
is not true about your jealousy, your fears
and what your partner may or may not be
doing. When you're able to do this the
jealousy simply loses it hold on you
and lets go.
You'll discover a simple, easy-to-use
stress management tool you can use anytime
anywhere when you may be faced with a
difficult situation or you are not at
your best so you can "take care" of
yourself in stressful moments and
situations.
No More Jealousy Audio
Recording # 4
On this audio, we give you the ideas
and tools that we've used to create the relationship that we
want so you can try them out in your relationship.
We tell you how you can build trust with
partnerships, how you can create agreements for how the two
of you are going to be together, ideas for how to speak your
truth to your partner and the secrets to
listening and being understood.
No More Jealousy
Audio Recordings
5 and 6
These two audios are for the
person who is with a jealous partner...
Here we give practical suggestions for how to cope when you are the
target of jealousy.
Part 1: What it means to be with a
jealous person and ways for you to sort out what's really
going on. How to get to the place where you have more
understanding but also can be more honest with your partner
about their jealousy.
Part 2: Communication and
trust-building techniques for healing your relationship with your
jealous partner.
Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the
"No More Jealousy" program...
How you can stop your knee-jerk reactions
and create different images in your head when you imagine the worst case scenario--like your partner in bed with someone else
The one thing you MUST do if you don't want to stay stuck with
jealousy and these jealous feelings forever
How to know the difference between when your jealousy is not
based in fact and when there really is reason
to pay attention to your inner warnings and confront your partner
What jealousy is, what it's not and how to recognize it as
quickly as it comes up--this way you can stop it as soon as it
comes up so it doesn't do any lasting damage to your
relationship
How to tell whether you were born to be the "jealous type" or if
there's another reason you're so jealous much of the time
What to do if your partner cannot or will not see their part in
the jealousy issue and drama that's going on...and how to start
working on creating more closeness and connection no matter what
they do
7 "Myths" about jealousy almost
everyone who is jealous thinks and believes that almost always
make the problem worse --and how to make sure these things don't
happen to you in your relationship
How to stop looking for ways to mistrust (especially when your
partner has done nothing to warrant your mistrust)
Why trying to "control" your partner
almost never works in a relationship and what you can do instead to
release the feelings of jealousy and feel more ease and peace
How to create agreements that build clear, honest communication
and more trust in a way that makes all the difference between
whether you're able to rebuild trust in your relationship or not
The key to healing self-esteem
issues or any other feelings you find unacceptable so you
avoid staying stuck with jealousy and jealous feelings forever
How to stop your habitual responses to the things that trigger
your jealousy in a way that actually makes sure you don't damage or ruin
your relationship
How to know if your partner is
cheating or not so that your jealousy actually begins to heal
itself
How to deal with a partner who has lied to you in the past and
continues to lie to you--and you don't know what to believe
anymore
How to recognize your patterns and identify what triggers your jealous feelings and
reactions so you can stop them
7 ways to be more peaceful and in control of yourself, no matter
how negative your thoughts become
How to deal with a partner's
jealousy and not make it a full-time job
How to use affirmations to feel more
hopeful and change your nagging thoughts when you are jealous
How to know how much privacy is acceptable and how much privacy should you
demand or request if you want to rebuild your relationship and
keep it healthy
What you can do to begin setting and
enforcing healthy boundaries that make you feel more peaceful,
comfortable and solid in your relationship
The best ways to deal with jealousy and insecurity in social
situations so you can avoid creating a scene or even that lonely
feeling of disconnection
How to create, set and keep agreements between the two of you
that rebuild trust
An exercise you can do quickly and
easily that is the first step to changing anything (especially
jealousy)
Ways to deal with issues like
flirting, spying, online porn and cybersex that actually build
more trust in your relationship at the same time
And much more...
How to
tell if this "No More Jealousy"
program is for you...
If ANY of the
following statements are true for you--then "No More Jealousy" is
definitely for you and you should definitely download your copy of the program
as soon as possible...
Say "YES" to any statements that apply to you...
You've accused your
partner of being with someone else--even if they adamantly deny it...
You feel like or have been accused of being a
big nag and asking "stupid" questions
You have lost a relationship in the past because of jealousy
and you still don't know if there was a reason to be jealous or
not...
You're insecure, suspicious
or not trusting of your partner or spouse...
You keep tabs on your partner's
every move
You're constantly worried about
where your partner is and what they are doing
You've had the question within
yourself about whether this jealousy and lack of trust is truly justified or not...
You've checked up on
your partner by looking through their cell phone, computer,
email, purse, briefcase etc. to see who they may be
communicating with that you don't know about...
You've accused your
partner of dressing too provocatively and you think she wants
attention of other men...
You have accused your
partner of flirting or "making eyes" at someone else...
Your partner has
suggested they are considering leaving the relationship if you
can't get control of your jealousy...
You call your partner
when you're feeling anxious just to make sure they're not with
someone else or doing something they shouldn't be doing...
You feel that your
partner is looking at and paying too much attention to other
attractive people online or when you go out...
You think your partner has
lied about where they were, who they were with or what they had
been doing...
You find that you're still angry or upset
about being "cheated on" either in this relationship or one in
your past...
You've actually had the
thought that --because of your jealousy--you might even be going a little
crazy...
You've wished you could talk to your partner honestly about your
feelings without them blowing up and getting upset
You're afraid that your partner is fed up
with your jealousy and will leave you...
You've imagined your partner being with someone else (even
when they haven't been)...
You're finally sick and tired of letting
jealousy control you and keep you from the love and relationship
you really want...
If you said "YES" to any of
the above statements--then jealousy and lack of trust are
definitely issues for you.
We urge you to give yourself permission to say "YES" to you and make the
decision to whip jealousy and banish it from your life forever.
We urge you to say "YES" to you so you can feel safe and
comfortable even in social situations that have driven you crazy in the
past.
Life is too short to be miserable for one moment longer.
All you have to do is be willing to invest a little bit of time,
effort and energy into learning and practicing some new ideas and some new skills of
self discovery and the rest is easy.
What
makes this "No More Jealousy" program so much more effective than anything
else that's available for getting rid of jealousy?
We'll start with making a true confession...
We're not professional therapists, we're relationship coaches and here's
why this is important to you...
There are plenty of resources out there including
therapists, coaches, counselors, ministers, priests, rabbis etc. who are
trying to offer relationship help to people who need it and we think
that's great. But almost none of them are focusing on the issue of
jealousy.
We don't know whether the issue of jealousy is just too
painful to deal with, it's too messy of a subject or people just
just don't get the training in it to help others.
The fact is...
We're two of the select few people in the world who
specialize in helping people like you overcome jealousy.
It's also a fact that some of the best trained
therapists in the world regularly refer their therapy clients to our "No
More Jealousy" program and to work with us on this
issue.
We know how to help you solve this problem of
jealousy because not only have we done it in our own lives but
we've been studying this subject for over 9 years now and after
spending thousands of hours (and a lot of money attending trainings and
conferences) dissecting the issue of jealousy and
relationships--now we're considered to be experts on the subject.
You see, the painful truth is...
Back when we were first starting our
relationship and jealousy was a major issue for us--we didn't have the relationship skills we have now to work
through painful issues like this one. We tried all the usual methods to overcome our problems -- we read
self-help books, listened to counselors, talked with friends. One thing we came to realize was...
Nobody addressed the REAL cause of jealousy!
Like many people, you might've thought "jealousy's not
my fault," or other people may have told you "it's all your fault," "it's all
in your head" Or maybe you heard that you should "just let go" (of your
feelings) and "get on with your life!" How's that going for you?
If you're like us, you might have found that it didn't work.The reason it didn't work is because...These things that you
may have thought or been led to believe don't really solve anything.
These are excuses or runaway thoughts that are keeping you stuck.
The real issue you're dealing with is FEAR .
fear of abandonment - feeling left on a doorstep or
thrown away
fear of loss of love -constantly worrying if your
partner really is going to leave you or find someone else,
smarter, prettier, more wealthy, more attractive or more of
anything that you're not
fear of being dishonored in the relationship - feeling
emotionally shipwrecked, paralyzed with humiliating images
of your partner in the arms of another
fear of being shamed in the community - feeling
ashamed your family and neighbors will think you weren't a
good enough partner and talk about you
unresolved issues from past relationships -
feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, or pain that are
deeply-rooted in past relationships
lack of (you fill in the blank) issues - respect from
partner, closeness, sex, attention, excitement, affection, companionship,
feeling wanted, cared for, loved
poor self esteem - the harsh inner critic constantly
criticizing, punishing, and belittling
desire for revenge or vindictive feelings - feelings of
revenge only stir up the ashes of your own hurt and
resentment and make your life miserable
It doesn't matter if these emotions are "real" or not...Until you
examine, and begin to heal them, that bitter taste of jealousy and lack
of trust will seep in again and
again.
Now, you might be wondering..."Why hasn't anyone ever told me this before?"
The sad truth is most people don't know this, because the information
simply wasn't easily available...until now. In fact, as you may have already found, most counselors just don't know
how to tackle this problem. Or, they think it's too hard to overcome.
However, we've discovered simple steps you can take to help you stop the
nasty feelings within seconds, stop despair from ruling your life,
help you feel totally connected to your partner and get the love you
really want...
Plus, we've made this easy...
One of the other big reasons that "No More Jealousy" works so well is because
we give simple, easy to follow instructions.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the
jealousy and trust challenges that come up for you in your
relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe that this "No More
Jealousy" program can and will change
your life.
The question is...
What do you want for your
relationship?
Get Ready To
Learn The Simple Steps You
Need to Take To Stop The Jealousy Now--
BEFORE it Rips Your Relationship To Shreds...
Dear Friend,
You're here because either you or your partner is
jealous and this jealousy is painful enough in your relationship and
life that you're finally ready to do something about it.
We're relationship coaches Susie and Otto Collins and you may not know us yet, but we're experts on helping people like you
overcome jealousy before it ruins your relationship and life.
We created this website because we want to help you get rid of the
jealousy that's causing so much pain, misery and uncertainty between you and the most important
person in your life.
In order to best help you do that, we'd like to ask you a few questions
about jealousy and your relationship.
This will only take a moment and don't worry...
These questions and your answers are
for your eyes ONLY as a tool for discovering just how BIG the jealousy
problem is for you in your relationship and what your next steps are for
overcoming it.
So, take a deep breath, relax and answer the following questions as
openly and honestly as you can...
If you answered YES to any of the
above questions, then your jealousy is much bigger
than what would be considered "normal."
The "green-eyed monster" called
jealousy can and
will
destroy your relationship
or marriage if you don't do something to stop it in its tracks.
If you're at the end of your rope because of jealousy, hang on a minute because...
There IS a way to eliminate the shame, insecurity, and self- doubt.
Here's
how you CAN overcome the jealousy, get your life back and enjoy the healthy
relationships
you deserve... And it's easier than you think!
How do we know this?
In the early days of our relationship--long before we were highly
successful Breakthrough Relationship Coaches--we had our own struggles with jealousy.
We've been there, maybe exactly where you are right
now. In fact, things got so bad, we didn't think our relationship would
survive. It tore us apart-- made us question ourselves, we felt unloved and
it caused a great deal of unnecessary turmoil.
We don't know
how jealousy comes up for you in your relationship or marriage-- but in
our particular situation jealousy came at the worst possible
moments...
For
example...
We would be out at a restaurant, a social gathering, a party or a
get-together at a friend's house and Susie would see Otto talking to
someone else--especially another beautiful woman--and her whole body
would start to tense up, her heart would start beating faster (and not
in a good way), her mind would start racing and then she'd start seeing and
imagining the worst possible scenarios in her mind.
It wasn't
that Susie didn't trust Otto.
It's just that
these jealous thoughts were like scenes from a bad movie that she
couldn't get out of her mind and the worst part is that they would
seemingly come out of nowhere and just "blind" her to the point that
this was all she could think about and focus on.
Her jealous
thoughts were enough to drive any sane person crazy.
When these thoughts would come up, she would start saying things to
herself like... "He's going to leave me for someone else--someone younger, more beautiful, more fun, sexier, more outgoing, more
'spiritual'."
You name it
and she thought it-- and as we just said a moment ago--it very well
could have totally ruined our love and relationship.
Jealousy was
so intense that neither one of us could really be who we were and this
was awful.
Otto was always trying to reign himself in and not really be his normal,
outgoing self when we would go out.
He didn't feel like he could talk to as many people as he would like in
social situations out of fear of how Susie might react.
Because of the tension that the jealousy created for the two of us, we
also weren't nearly as connected as we would have liked and our
intimacy suffered.
Communication was strained, we both felt like we were always walking on
eggshells and there was even an underlying tension when we had sex
(after all, it's hard to have deep connected, passionate sex with someone
who is always accusing you of doing something that you're NOT
doing.)
We could have split over this but the good news is, we didn't...
We
found a solution for these painful, agonizing feelings!
We discovered steps to take to save our relationship and
remove the
JEALOUSY out of our lives forever. And you can too!
Now at
parties, get-togethers with friends or social gatherings, Otto is the one
coming to find Susie -- wanting to be with her, and she's able to have a
perfectly fine time NOT watching what he's doing or keeping tabs on him.
As Otto says--"This makes ME want to seek her out and be with her
more than anyone at any party we are at... totally changing our dynamic
at social gatherings completely."
We're two people (like you)
who've lived through this. We struggled with the apprehension, heart-break and uncertainty in our relationship.
But you know what?
Our relationship used to be filled
with jealousy and now we have a close, connected and incredibly
passionate relationship that we wouldn't trade for anything.
We ended our miserable nightmare and so can you.
Since you're reading this, we believe you're ready to get rid of the unhappiness in your life.
Many people would have already clicked off this site
already.
But you're still here, because you hear that small voice - the one
inside that whispers to you every single day. The same one that keeps
you awake at night
saying...
You were meant to have a life FREE Of JEALOUSY!
Why
Jealousy isn't your fault
and what you can do about it...
Maybe your partner has given you plenty
of reasons to cause you to doubt their love, honesty, faithfulness and
desire to be with you--and maybe they haven't.
Maybe you've been in other relationships where you've had a partner or
spouse who's lied to you or cheated on you.
Maybe you've seen firsthand relationships (maybe your parents) or marriages of people you
know, love and care about be totally destroyed because of lies, cheating
or an affair or infidelity.
Regardless of whether any of those things are true for you...
If you want to know why being jealous is such a huge issue in relationship today, you don't have to look any
further than your favorite media outlet.
We are all
being constantly bombarded in movies, television, books, magazines,
newspapers, emails, music, and on the
internet with the message that everyone lies and cheats--especially in
committed relationships and marriages.
The airwaves and other media
outlets are filled with real
and made- up stories of infidelity and betrayal.
If you hear enough of those media messages over and over (and ALL of
us have), it's only natural that you're going to start putting a question
mark in front of everything your partner says or does. You might even be
tempted to lie or cheat because it seems that "everybody's" doing it and
it's somehow acceptable.
Because of all of these messages
(plus maybe what happened in your past), it's no wonder you have all
these jealous thoughts that you can't seem control!
So, what can you do to get these
jealous thoughts and feelings under control?
Here's a technique we want to
teach you right now that can help you stop jealous thoughts in 3 minutes
or less.
The
"3-Minute Jealous
Thought Stopper"
We created this technique to help
our Relationship Breakthrough Coaching clients get some "instant relief"
whenever those jealous thoughts rear their ugly heads (which is usually
at the worst possible moments).
We call it...
The "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper."
You'll want to use this when your jealous thoughts are creeping in and
running your life--and you feel out of control.
Remember, jealous thoughts are a habit and they can be changed.
Here's how to do the "3 Minute
Jealous Thought Stopper"...
1st-- SIT-- Sit in a quiet place.
(The bathroom will do).
2. SETTLE-- Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, bringing
your breath into your feet so that you feel grounded and connected to
the earth. Feel yourself slowing down and your breathing deepen. (Maybe
30 seconds)
3. AWARENESS-- Come into awareness of your jealous thoughts in
this moment. (What exactly are you thinking? You might even want to ask
yourself... "I'm thinking that_______)." And then fill in the blank with
what you're thinking. No judging!
4. ASK--
Ask yourself if you know your jealous thoughts to be true--absolutely
true. What evidence do you have to support these thoughts? Whether you
think your thoughts are true or not true, bring your attention to your
heart or gut area and
feel the sensations in your body. (What are you feeling in your body? Is
there tightness, a big knot, emptiness, heaviness?)
5. ALLOW-- Allow your sensations to be there without judging them and
breathe into that area of the body. (If you feel heavy in your heart area, breathe
into that heaviness until the sensation softens. If you feel a "knot" in
your gut area, breathe into that knot until it starts to loosen.)
6. REPLACE-- Replace the jealous "movie" running in your head to one that is
more in alignment with what you want in your life--because the reality is
that both outcomes are possible.
Here's
why the "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper" works and an example of how to use
it...
If you know that your jealous thoughts aren't true but you see yourself
being cheated on or your partner leaving you anyway, replace that movie
with
a favorite memory from the past with your partner or special moments
between the two of you that are happening in the present or could happen
in the future.
Here's why this incredibly simple technique of "running a new or
different movie" in your mind when jealous thoughts come up is so
amazing...
It's an absolute scientifically-proven fact that your brain cannot tell the difference between seeing
something that's real and seeing something that you only imagine in your
mind's eye.
Why else does your mouth actually
salivate when you imagine yourself cutting open a fresh lemon and opening
your mouth to take a big bite of it?
It's your body's reaction to
something that you only imagined.
The same is true of jealousy.
When you imagine your partner
wanting to be with someone else (or whatever keeps you up at night), you
are running and re-running that movie until it becomes very real to you.
If you want to change this movie
that is manufactured in your brain, our jealous thought stopper can
actually dissolve it--and help you to stop being jealous.
The truth is...jealousy is a habit
and it's a habit that can be broken.
For 21 days, every time your jealous thoughts come up, do this technique and you won't believe
how much ease you will begin to feel.
This is one of the techniques that
Susie used to help her put an end to jealousy that was between us and we
know it can help you too.
What if your jealous thoughts
ARE true and cheating is really going on?
If you know there is truth to your suspicions, we still advise you to
practice this technique.
Instead of your new "movie" being
a favorite memory, you might see yourself taking your
next step in an empowered way instead of continuing your jealous cycle.
This "3 Minute Jealous Thought Stopper" is a great way to help you get some instant relief from your jealous thoughts.
You can do this as often as you
like to get the relief you want and need but...
You may also be wondering...
What
Else Can You Do To STOP Jealousy
In Your Relationship and Life?
If you're serious about doing what
it takes to stop jealousy in your relationship and life, you're
going to want to know about this...
We've created a breakthrough program that shows you exactly how to stop the insanity that
jealousy creates in your relationship and life.
A downloadable book and audio program from Susie
& Otto Collins created specifically to help you
Stop YOUR Jealousy Now...
Here's what's in the "No More Jealousy" program
and how it can help you start dissolving those jealous thoughts,
feelings and sometimes out-of-control irrational behavior...
"No More Jealousy" is more than
just a book or an ebook. It is a complete "soup-to-nuts" program for
overcoming jealousy.
The "No More Jealousy" program
includes a book and 6 audio recordings that you download, as well as a special report on
how to get free from jealousy in your close relationships, all tightly
focused on helping you heal this painful situation you're living with
and create a love relationship that's exactly what you want--free of the
pain of jealousy.
Here's what you're going to get in the
package...
In part one of the package--you'll
get...The "No More Jealousy" Guidebook
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Instantly downloadable
We've organized this "No More Jealousy" guidebook from our program into
two parts. In
section one ...
We introduce you to some new ways of looking at jealousy, help
you understand what it really is, where it comes from and give
you dozens of concrete ideas and strategies for letting those
jealous feelings melt away.
Also in part one, we talk
about where trust-building really starts. (This too will surprise you.)
In
section 2 ... This part of the guidebook is where we lay out our
strategies for dealing with a true "jealousy emergency."
After you've finished with this section of the book, you (and your
partner) will know exactly what to do in tense, crisis- filled situations
where jealousy has come up quickly or seemingly exploded out of no where
and you need to know what to do and how to handle it.
Woven within the pages of this "No More Jealousy" guidebook
are our personal stories, along with the questions and stories of others who gave
us permission to use their words with the hope that their experiences
would be helpful to you as you discover how to stop your jealousy and restore
your relationship or marriage.
There are questions at the end of each chapter to help you examine your
specific situation more closely and to give you more clarity about your
situation and what you need to do in order to break free of
the jealousy when it comes up.
Please note:
These 6 audios are NOT
Susie and Otto reading the "No More Jealousy" guidebook.
These instantly available downloadable recordings are
40-75 minutes each and offer additional insights, breakthrough strategies and coaching specifically
designed to help you solve this jealousy issue in your relationship and
life.
Here's what we cover on
these recordings...
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Jealousy
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Recording # 3
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Recording # 4
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5 and 6
Part 1: What it means to be with a
jealous person and ways for you to sort out what's really
going on. How to get to the place where you have more
understanding but also can be more honest with your partner
about their jealousy.
Part 2: Communication and
trust-building techniques for healing your relationship with your
jealous partner.
Here's a partial list of what you'll learn when you get the
"No More Jealousy" program...
How to
tell if this "No More Jealousy"
program is for you...
If ANY of the
following statements are true for you--then "No More Jealousy" is
definitely for you and you should definitely download your copy of the program
as soon as possible...
Say "YES" to any statements that apply to you...
If you said "YES" to any of
the above statements--then jealousy and lack of trust are
definitely issues for you.
We urge you to give yourself permission to say "YES" to you and make the
decision to whip jealousy and banish it from your life forever.
We urge you to say "YES" to you so you can feel safe and
comfortable even in social situations that have driven you crazy in the
past.
Life is too short to be miserable for one moment longer.
All you have to do is be willing to invest a little bit of time,
effort and energy into learning and practicing some new ideas and some new skills of
self discovery and the rest is easy.
What
makes this "No More Jealousy" program so much more effective than anything
else that's available for getting rid of jealousy?
We'll start with making a true confession...
We're not professional therapists, we're relationship coaches and here's
why this is important to you...
There are plenty of resources out there including
therapists, coaches, counselors, ministers, priests, rabbis etc. who are
trying to offer relationship help to people who need it and we think
that's great. But almost none of them are focusing on the issue of
jealousy.
We don't know whether the issue of jealousy is just too
painful to deal with, it's too messy of a subject or people just
just don't get the training in it to help others.
We're two of the select few people in the world who
specialize in helping people like you overcome jealousy.
It's also a fact that some of the best trained
therapists in the world regularly refer their therapy clients to our "No
More Jealousy" program and to work with us on this
issue.
We know how to help you solve this problem of
jealousy because not only have we done it in our own lives but
we've been studying this subject for over 9 years now and after
spending thousands of hours (and a lot of money attending trainings and
conferences) dissecting the issue of jealousy and
relationships--now we're considered to be experts on the subject.
You see, the painful truth is...
Back when we were first starting our
relationship and jealousy was a major issue for us--we didn't have the relationship skills we have now to work
through painful issues like this one. We tried all the usual methods to overcome our problems -- we read
self-help books, listened to counselors, talked with friends. One thing we came to realize was...
Nobody addressed the REAL cause of jealousy!
Like many people, you might've thought "jealousy's not
my fault," or other people may have told you "it's all your fault," "it's all
in your head" Or maybe you heard that you should "just let go" (of your
feelings) and "get on with your life!" How's that going for you?
If you're like us, you might have found that it didn't work.The reason it didn't work is because...These things that you
may have thought or been led to believe don't really solve anything.
These are excuses or runaway thoughts that are keeping you stuck.
The real issue you're dealing with is FEAR .
unresolved issues from past relationships -
feelings of anger, hurt, frustration, or pain that are
deeply-rooted in past relationships
It doesn't matter if these emotions are "real" or not...Until you
examine, and begin to heal them, that bitter taste of jealousy and lack
of trust will seep in again and
again.
Now, you might be wondering..."Why hasn't anyone ever told me this before?"
The sad truth is most people don't know this, because the information
simply wasn't easily available...until now. In fact, as you may have already found, most counselors just don't know
how to tackle this problem. Or, they think it's too hard to overcome.
However, we've discovered simple steps you can take to help you stop the
nasty feelings within seconds, stop despair from ruling your life,
help you feel totally connected to your partner and get the love you
really want...
Plus, we've made this easy...
One of the other big reasons that "No More Jealousy" works so well is because
we give simple, easy to follow instructions.
If you have even an ounce of desire to heal the
jealousy and trust challenges that come up for you in your
relationship or marriage, we sincerely believe that this "No More
Jealousy" program can and will change
your life.
Do you want jealousy, fear and doubt to rule your
relationship and life?
or
Do you want to put an end to your jealousy nightmare right now?
If you've read this far, we're thinking
that you're someone who really wants a whole lot more from your
relationship than you have right now and you're willing to be open to
some new ideas to create something better.
We think so and here's something really important to
understand...
You've got no need to apologize for wanting a better life!
There's absolutely no reason to be shy about going for what you want.
Because you deserve it!
Contrary to what the world wants you to believe, satisfying your desires
is not selfish. You were born to be satisfied...not settling for a
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disappointment.
Download the "No More Jealousy"
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This program is the one of the most
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and you lose your partner and the love you really want.
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If you don't buy this program right now, nothing will
change.
If you don't get your copy of this program now, you'll still be jealous.
You'll still feel those waves of doubt about your partner AND you'll
still be constantly wondering what they're doing, who they're talking to
and whether you're about to lose them to someone else.
It's also highly likely that if you don't get control of
your jealousy, YOU WILL lose your partner.
After all, no matter how much someone cares about you or loves
you--there's only so much a person can take.
Who would want to put up with all the constant drama, fighting, false
accusations, defending themselves and worrying all the time about
whether the next thing they say or do is going to put you over the edge
again.
If you don't get this jealousy problem handled right now it's just going
to keep coming up over and over until you do.
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Jealousy not
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made myself crazy from the constant ideas that I wasn't good
enough. I felt like my partner was gong to leave me one day
because it happend before.
We need to change those stories to the positive.
So true, if I'm running around in fear that my partner will
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was making me crazy. I was ready to do whatever it took to
change these patterns. So I changed these stories. There
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how to come to terms with those feelings.
I have to admit that not every day is perfect, I have to
remind myself of these tools often. I even have a bad day
now and again and might take things out on people that don't
deserve it but I have the tools now to deal with these
issues quicker and with more tact.
I feel that this just wasn't a book and audios, it was life
lessons on how to deal with your feelings, and get out of
negative patterns or stories that we tell ourselves.
Thank you Susie and Otto for well needed tools to deal with
feelings and inadequacies.
Courtney
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